Thursday, October 28, 2010


I can’t promise you perfection, because that’s not who I am. I can’t promise you forever, because I don’t hold fate in my hands. I can’t promise you the sunshine, because there will always be rain. I can’t promise you complete happiness, because with true love, there comes pain. I can’t promise you I’ll always smile, because life always finds a way to make me cry. I can’t promise you I’ll stay strong, because it’s not easy to want to give life another try. I can’t promise you this life will always be fair, but I can promise you that no matter what, when you look back, I’ll always be there.

Sunday, October 24, 2010


You know that feeling? When you're just waiting. Waiting to get home, into your room, close the door, fall into bed, and just let everything out that you kept in all day. That feeling of both relief and desperation. Nothing is wrong. But nothing is right either. And you're tired. Tired of everything, tired of nothing. And you just want someone to be there and tell you it's okay. But no one's going to be there. And you know you have to be strong for yourself, because no one can fix you. But you're tired of waiting. Tired of having to be the one to fix yourself and everyone else. Tired of being strong. And for once, you just want it to be easy. To be simple. To be helped. To be saved. But you know you won't be. But you're still hoping. And you're still wishing. And you're still staying strong and fighting, with tears in your eyes. You're fighting...

Saturday, October 23, 2010


I want to be so many things.

You make me wish I was as beautiful as you seem to think I am.

I'm afraid of you. I'm afraid of how much I like you and the ways in which I think I like you and how none of it makes sense...

Friday, October 22, 2010

I’m the kind of girl who is quiet in large groups or around people I don’t know; you only see the real me if we’re close. I smile and laugh a lot, especially at the most inappropriate times. I’m a hopeless romantic who’s too afraid to fall herself. I trip over air, up stairs, and over people’s feet. I am the hardest person to offend, but it is all too easy to make me feel horrible. I hate telling people about my problems; they don’t need to worry about me. I’m the one who listens to other people’s problems. I believe people should not be judged before one takes the time to get to know them, yet I am guilty of doing that exact thing. I love to think rather than talk. I prefer rainy, cloudy days to sunny ones. I’m awkward, clumsy, shy, strange… but this is me. Take it or leave it.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

'I love you' means that I accept you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I do not expect perfection from you, just as you do not expect it from me. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you're in a bad mood or too tired to do the things I want to do. It means loving you when you're down, not just when you're fun to be with. 'I love you' means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them, asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting and needing you constantly, hoping that you feel the same way for me.

Saturday, October 16, 2010



如果你的女朋友生气了...

1、

如果你的女朋友在你面前哭了

无论什么原因,请抱紧她..

再反抗也要抱紧!

趴在桌子上永远没有在你怀里安心..



2、

如果你的女朋友指出了你的不是

请不要总是嫌她唠叨

若不是因为在乎她不会说你..



3、

如果你的女朋友和你赌气不理你,不要也学她

这正是考验你们的时候

"脸皮厚"的精神此时不发扬又更待何时?





4、

如果你的女朋友不听你的话,转身走了..

一定要追上她!

若真的还爱着,丢下她一个人你又如何放心呢?



5、

如果你的女朋友说"你走吧!我不想理你了!"

千万不要相信..

女人最是口是心非,其实那是她最需要你的时候




6、

如果你的女朋友生气了,说心情不好不想吃饭

千万不要问她想干吗?想吃什么?

她一定说什么都不要..

买好你记忆里她最爱吃的东西(最好是有包装的,这样等她心情好了再吃也不会冷)

但一定不要以自己也不吃来威胁她




7、

如果你的女朋友对你们说狠话

请保持三秒钟不说话

然后搂过她的肩

笑笑说:"老婆,你讲话的声音真可爱!"





珍惜你们的女朋友

不要把她们想的坏、想的复杂

女人要的永远最简单



她忙碌的时候不一定就是充实,或许只是因为寂寞

所以如果你爱上她,就不要怕打扰她



她跟你吵架时不一定就是真有事

而是想撒娇没找对途径

错误的以为这样你就会注意到她

吵完架不要给她时间冷静

实际上她一点也不需要冷静

她需要你跟她说话哄哄她



她想哭时先不要问原因

而是在任何时候任何状态下

都先给她一个肩膀让她有依靠



她不知道该怎么办时就喜欢说分手

多半都是在以退为进

尽管常常让自己没有了下台阶



她整天跟你唠叨个没完时

是因为她还在爱你愿意与你分享

女人不爱的方式,才是沉默



她成了"黄脸婆"的原因常是因为沮丧

而这种沮丧一定和你的爱有关

所以,也就能够改变



她梦想一些不切合实际的浪漫时

不要粗暴地打断她

如果连梦想也枯萎的女人更可怕



大多数时候她都是动态的

你也千万别总是静态

相处时你们更需要互动,哪怕是争执不休



女人都是水做的

所以情愿热着她也别冷着她

不然一过了零度她就会结成了冰

最终冻着你



她有时候需要听一些谎言

比如要你说什么你就说什么

在你不脸红的情况下说到她脸红



她烦闷的时候最不喜欢一个人待着

这时候她是不会嫌你烦的

你越跟她缠绵她心里就越好受



当她吃醋的时候可不是好玩的

最有效的办法还是让她无醋可吃

要不在醋缸里淹死的可是你



女人的眼泪并不都是珍珠

但你一定每次都把它们当成珍珠

这样她才会变得连哭都很吝啬



她说得话你可以适当忽略

但在她需要你的时刻请陪在她身边

这常常可以让她回味一辈子



女人都是感性的

所以常会做出一些你认为弱智的事情

也正因为如此,她才需要你的提醒与呵护


不是所有的女人做了母亲后都会长大和变得坚强

所以正确教育孩子的重任常常是在你的肩膀上


她骂你的时候是因为爱你

她打你的时候也是因为爱你

这一点上和男人的表现刚好完全相反


温柔的女人也会有脾气

坚强的女人也会有脆弱

独立的女人也会有固执

你选择了她就请承担她

Thursday, October 14, 2010

"Why did you let your mother down again?" I fucking hate this sentence.. Have I not done enough to prove to her that I do care and want the best for her?
1st I quit school to be with her. Ppl say to me: you are still young, still got time to study, don't worry, but you only got 1 mother. If you don't be with her now, you may regret it later.
So I gave up my future here, my dreams, my life. Honestly speaking, those that I gave up, no matter how hard I try now, I just can't find it back. And those were the best things I ever had.
Those who dunno thinks that I'm those play girl who only knows fun, that's why I quit school. Fuck that!!
Now that she comes back here, I quit my job to help her out, I'm being said to be living off my mother, so useless, what the fuck is this?
Have I not done enough??
I'm not gonna care whether my mum is happy or sad. From this moment on, I live for myself. I'm the daughter she gave birth to, take it or leave it.

Saturday, October 09, 2010

Now I understand why some people get themselves drunk.
It's not because they want to escape each killing moment the spent every fucking night thinking about what's happening with their damn life. Of course they don't forget their problems, but at least they don't spend the night crying themselves to sleep.

Wednesday, October 06, 2010

Adults sometimes can be even worst than a child, more childish, more insecure, harder to coax.

Why? Because they are hurt once too many times to trust and love someone like they fall in love the 1st time round. And fuck it! Whenever they are unhappy, the people around them suffer too.

I was just trying to help.. Is there a need to throw tantrum at me too?? You have your bad days, so do I!! Most young adults at my age are busy chasing their dreams, making a name for themselves. What about me? I'm here to back you up. Because of you I gave up my dreams TWICE!! Why are you still not happy with me? Not trying to understand me a little?

I want my freedom!! I'm already jailed in this place for more than I can take..